But I want it so badly! All i need to figure out is:
reverse proxys (I stumbled through getting one caddy instance setup so far but gosh I struggle with that also, nginx proxy manager seems like my next step)
a rock solid backup/restore setup (but first I need to figure out where the vaultwarden alpine files live, then be able to get those off of the proxmox vm)
this is more of a vent, than a request for someone to spell it all out for me. But I wouldn’t be upset if anyone had the time to point me in the right direction for me.
Would it just be easier to run a keypass XC and syncthing setup?
Easier? Yes, definitely. Maybe work on the Vaultwarden stuff in parts, instead of all in one go.
Also, if you’re using Proxmox, you might just back up your whole VM to PBS. That’s how I do it. But that takes a bit of work to set up on its own.