• @kernelle
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    23 months ago

    You’re missing the point by like a mile, you have to be open to new ones. Relationships don’t just appear out of nowhere.

    • stebo
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      03 months ago

      I am. I’m just saying it’s not because you got lucky that this will work out for everyone, so it’s not 100%

      • @kernelle
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        23 months ago

        Oh no you’re mistaken, I got incredibly lucky. But after more than a decade I can confidently say that I’ve never seemed more desirable since I have nothing to prove. That confidence is what I’m talking about, I’ve seen many people try hard and fail. I’ve seen many more people try less and succeed.

        • stebo
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          03 months ago

          ok so if you agree you got very lucky then why were you saying it will work 100%

          • @kernelle
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            23 months ago

            I stick to my word, it will work for you, 100% guaranteed. Be open and approach each interaction as if your meeting a friend. You’ll get there bud

            • stebo
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              23 months ago

              sure bro I will get back to you in 10 years😂

              • @kernelle
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                13 months ago

                “Victory and defeat happens in our heads first”, good luck and I’m counting on it