Because I don’t, and pretending to feels dishonest. I’ll listen if they want to talk about it, but I’m not going to act interested, and I certainly won’t ask about it on my own. What I’m trying to figure out is whether people actually care, or if they’re just playing a social game that I’m simply not interested in.
I’m probably on the autistic spectrum, which likely explains this to some extent. But that’s not an excuse - being an asshole is perfectly compatible with autism, so before dunking on me, please realise I probably agree with your criticism.
Yes, I do. Because I care about my friends. I’m eager to share in their excitement over their vacation or adventure. As far as their kids go, I don’t really care about a baby, but I do care about their toddlers on up. It’s really neat watching another sentient creature develop, who is based off of someone you know and love, and to see what sort of person they turn into.