Meme: Screenshot of microblog post by @alanjack replying to @fotchi.

Caption: I still don’t know why part of autistic/adhd diagnosis isn’t putting you in a room with someone already diagnosed and seeing how quickly you bond.

  • @[email protected]
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    3710 hours ago

    Ironically, this is how I found out.

    I had four different people with ASD, including one person I met for the first time, tell me that I should get myself checked. One was after I had a several hour long convo with someone who could only normally talk with neurotypical people for about 30 minutes before it became a strain. He was shocked that I wasn’t diagnosed and recommended I get checked.

    Now the only reason I don’t have a diagnosis is because the evaluator didn’t understand how the criteria worked. Still debating whether to try again for a diagnosis or not.

    • @[email protected]
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      189 hours ago

      Same. For years I wondered why I tended to gravitate towards people with autism or ADHD.

      I don’t have a formal diagnosis for ASD, but my current provider is very sure I have it. (She says I can get a formal dx, but it will cost a lot and will not really add any value to my life. This is my own situation, it may vary for other people.)

      I suppose it depends what you want out of a diagnosis. I pursued getting evaluated for ADHD because I can pursue treatment with a diagnosis that isn’t available to me otherwise.

      Either way, good luck to you!

      • @[email protected]
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        128 hours ago

        Childhood trauma can cause the same symptoms as autism but that usually gets worked out through therapy and some mood boosters.

        Guess how I found out :)

        • @[email protected]
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          77 hours ago

          heh we’re a little similar. I thought my symptoms were all childhood trauma and I was just bad at therapy. Whoops.

        • @shyguyblue
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          27 hours ago

          Yup, same boat. My parents fucked around, and I had to find out…

    • @[email protected]
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      28 hours ago

      Now the only reason I don’t have a diagnosis is because the evaluator didn’t understand how the criteria worked

      thinking you’re smarter than trained and qualified professionals just makes you have honorary Internet autism

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        45 minutes ago

        I’m a “professional” at the top of my field - there are absolutely stupid people up here with me.

        “Testing well” isn’t “critical thinking.”

      • @[email protected]
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        116 hours ago

        I don’t think I am smarter? When I was done, he literally told me that I met the criteria, but that he thought my symptoms were for other reasons he refused to elaborate on. I checked with my therapist, who was the one who referred me, and she confirmed that that isn’t how it works, and that the evaluator didn’t understand how the criteria were supposed to be graded.