I am not a teen.

  • Flying Squid
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    93 hours ago

    My issue is that it’s almost always gratuitous now. I so rarely see a sex scene in a TV show or movie and think that it could have easily been skipped, but they felt the need to show an actress’ breasts and have her simulate an orgasm.

    I don’t get titillated by it. I have porn if I need that.

    I didn’t get past the first episode of Game of Thrones because I found all the sex and nudity too gratuitous for my tastes.

    I don’t think I’m a prude. I have no problem with sex scenes and nudity in films where they make sense. Basic Instinct wouldn’t make sense without them. Last Tango in Paris wouldn’t make sense without them. They’re both movies worth watching.

    • @[email protected]
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      145 minutes ago

      You didn’t think it made sense in game of thrones?

      It’s olden days in a hostile world. All there is to do is have sex and die. What felt inaccurate to life about that?

      • Flying Squid
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        542 minutes ago

        In the one episode I saw? No. It seemed almost entirely gratuitous. I don’t need to watch a prostitute sucking off Peter Dinklage to know he’s having sex with a bunch of prostitutes what with him already being in bed with them.

        • @[email protected]
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          15 minutes ago

          I often find sex scenes to be gratuitous and unnecessary, but I would never let sex prevent me from watching an amazing TV show or movie. I think that’s just foolish.

          • Flying Squid
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            111 seconds ago

            When there are countless other good things to watch that don’t involve those? Why spend my time on the ones that do just because they’re also considered to be good? I won’t enjoy them as much, so obviously they won’t be as good for me as they are for others.

            I could be missing all kinds of amazing things to watch for all kinds of reasons. So could you. There’s only 24 hours in a day. You have to pick and choose.

    • @MirthfulAlembic
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      19 seconds ago

      I think, at least in the GoT example, sexual situations can be used to communicate a lot about the attitudes and culture around sex and nudity in the universe of the show or movie. It’s much more interesting than somebody saying, “Hey, person who already knows this: it’s considered normal for men to use brothels, isn’t it?”

      It’s much less interesting and necessary for something set in the “current” world, since the audience doesn’t need as much education in the social mores. However, it can make the work have better instructive longevity if it’s an accurate depiction of the time, since people fifty years in the future can watch and understand what was different.

      But I do agree that overall there has been a lot of gratuitous nudity and sex, just the same with violence, etc.