I’m inclined to agree. Main issue for me is that it’s not a sustainable practice and you’re possibly making this very problem more difficult for the next generation.

Particularly if you plan to have kids, I think it’s nice to have one name. It just doesn’t have to be a man’s specifically. Name mashups are fun, or simply reversing gender stereotypes. I once went to a wedding where the couple flipped a coin to decide whose name they’d take forward and it was possibly the most exciting part of the day.