• @LANIK2000
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    172 days ago

    Considering that this kind of soft unspoken rejection is the same tactic women use to lose pickup “artists” and other perceived predators or just unwanted people, if in anon’s shoes, this is the moment I’d consider running away for my own peace of mind. In my experience, it’s a good idea to not stick around people that reject you on the basis of being “too good”.

    • qyron
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      92 days ago

      Very roundabout way to do it.

      As I stated in another comment, even sex workers have the right to refuse a customer.

      From my perspective, this is the kind of approach/behavior that feeds stalkers and worst.

      • @LANIK2000
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        92 days ago

        I’m a bit confused by your comment, but I think we agree?

        Sex workers absolutely should reject someone if they don’t want to. But this kind of “hell yes, but fuck no” shenanigans just leads to a lot of headaches. I’d say in any context.