• @Whats_your_reasoning
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    171 month ago

    At least they’re are trying. That’s more than can be said for a lot of people. Is it better to be with someone who’s got an understanding of their issues and wants to resolve them, or be with someone who doesn’t acknowledge their issues and/or who leans into maladaptive behaviors because of them?

    I’ve dated people in both camps. I’ll take the psych major any day. By a long shot.

    • @bitwaba
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      11 month ago

      The 3rd option of “neither” is a far better pick.

    • @cam_i_am
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      11 month ago

      Well said. I’m married to a clinical psychologist and she’s the most emotionally intelligent person I know. It’s the best. She’s the best.