• @[email protected]
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    322 days ago

    I’m too fucked up for an SO. There’s a song lyric that goes “How’s anyone else gonna love you, if you don’t love you too” and like, yeah. Way too full of self hatred to be appealing to anyone.

    • @fnrir
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      31 day ago

      Same, unfortunately. ;-;

    • @ApatheticCactus
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      112 days ago

      Same. I know my red flags, you don’t. If I were a used car I’d strongly recommend against getting it.

      • peopleproblems
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        72 days ago

        No, see, the real red flags are the ones you aren’t aware of yet.

        Those are the ones I’m frightened of. Like there’s just this itty-bit of something just waiting for the right bump to break and cut my brake lines while I’m on the highway.

        I don’t know what it is, but I know it’s there, so I gotta be self-critical until I find the piece to fix!

        At the very least I can tell you my job isn’t in sales.

    • @big_slap
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      102 days ago

      at least you are self aware enough to potentially fix this self hatred you have for yourself. people go on their entire lives living like this, its a vicious cycle. good luck!