• @[email protected]
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    29 hours ago

    did you just say someone who has a child with autism…doesn’t know their child? you ok?

    • @Today
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      29 hours ago

      If you know one child with autism, you know one child with autism. Like all individuals, they are incredibly varied and the range of things they will do to gain or avoid attention is vast.

      • @voracitude
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        58 hours ago

        Okay. Find me a human being who won’t scream for hours when you snap their femur.

        The femur is the thickest and largest bone in the body. When it snaps, everyone around you knows. Every breath a scream.

        Now, please defend ignoring a child screaming at the top of their lungs with every breath for two hours by saying something more about personalities and wanting attention.

        • @Today
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          I visit classrooms where children frequently scream with every breath for long periods of time. I also see children who plop to the floor many many times per day without “shattering a femur”. We don’t know if these behaviors were common for this child. We don’t know if the staff knew the child well enough to know if these were common behaviors for him. There is more to this story than the article presents and the use of the word shattered feels like clickbait language to me.

          ETA- Special ed is almost always understaffed. In Texas right now we have a governor who is attacking public education by withholding funding in an attempt to get his school voucher bill passed. We are seeing a big increase in students with high needs at a time when everyone is underfunded. It’s creating an incredibly stressful environment and we are losing teachers and paraprofessionals daily. We have many classes being run on a shoestring staff with substitute help when we can get it. It sucks. It sucks to see your co-workers emotionally and physically abused. It sucks to see great teachers leave because they can’t take it anymore. It sucks to see kids who need more and to know that their chance of getting a trained qualified special ed teacher this year is slim. It sucks every single fucking day.

    • @Carrolade
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      -19 hours ago

      No, I did not say that.

      • @[email protected]
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        39 hours ago

        You came damn close to it at least.

        Having a non verbal child does not make you an expert in protocols.

        • @Carrolade
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          -19 hours ago

          No, not really. This persons expertise in autism, their child, etc has no bearing whatsoever in how that one specific school treats its students. These are two completely separate topics, and that person’s child has zero bearing on the discussion, since they are not a student at the Virginia school.