I’m 34, and i feel hopeless, ive been in relationships that don’t work out and i end up hurting myself, and i find it really hard to find someone who likes the same things as me, and i blame it on my socioeconomic status and my looks. I try to find somewhere to put the blame, but it’s obvious that it’s me.
First be happy with yourself.
Then, and only then, can you be happy with other people who are happy to just vibe with you.
I mean, i know what things in life that make me happy. it’s just, you would think at my age this shit would of been sorted out, but its like im talking into a echo chamber.
I’ll let you in on a secret… We’re all of us making it up as we go along. And age adds issues, not subtracts. Methuselah didn’t have all his shit together.
yeah, i mean that’s what i’ve been doing so far…
Echo chamber? How do you mean?
like no one else is out there…
Your talking to real life people right now! you are being heard!
Thanks for the kind words.