• @[email protected]
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    4421 days ago

    My daughter is 12 and she tells me everything. I don’t even have to ask. I know all the gossips and which crush she currently has. What 12 year old does that? I appreciate it, but it’s very unfamiliar to me.

    • @[email protected]
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      3721 days ago

      Mine does too which is hilarious because I’m the dad and my ex-wife is OoTL most times.

      Take it as an indication your daughter trusts you.

      FWIW I’ve been very clear with my kids and I only share relevant info with my ex so if a kid says it’s a secret I will make it a secret.

      I’ve heard enough shit in my time as a parent I really question other parents lol

      • @themaninblack
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        420 days ago

        Sharing your kids’ secrets with anyone is a breach of trust. Good way to get your kids to not trust you with anything. You don’t get to override their preferences because you value their secret information differently.