• @Lost_My_Mind
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      214 hours ago

      More than 1 million copies sold, but yet I get downvoted if I say I see nothing but bad parenting in all directions, with very few exceptions.

      • @nyamlae
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        712 hours ago

        Bad parenting is widespread, but far from universal.

        In terms of prevalence, a worldwide meta-analysis estimated rates of 12.7% for sexual abuse, 16.3% for physical neglect, 18.4% for emotional neglect, 22.6% for physical abuse, and 36.3% for emotional abuse [3]. These data indicate that childhood maltreatment is globally widespread, affecting the lives of millions of children.

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        Anecdotally, I’ve found that people with bad childhoods tend to befriend each other. Every person that I’ve instantly clicked with has later revealed a history of long-term childhood maltreatment. I think this is why some people see bad parenting everywhere, and others find it unthinkable.