Just that. Can be accidental pregnancy. Can be that your partner wanted to have kids, but it has to be why YOU made the decision.

      • The RedWheelbarrow
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        114 days ago

        Lemme reply with a context: Question- What ruins a great relationship/marriage? Answer- “Kids”

        • @venusaurOP
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          114 days ago

          Hm. Could it also be that having children can be difficult at times, highlighting a some of the flaws or incompatibilities in people and a relationship.

            • @venusaurOP
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              113 days ago

              How are you managing this so it doesn’t affect your child/children?

                • @venusaurOP
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                  113 days ago

                  What does that mean? Doesn’t sound sustainable. Have you been seeing a therapist or family counseling?