Just that. Can be accidental pregnancy. Can be that your partner wanted to have kids, but it has to be why YOU made the decision.

    • The RedWheelbarrow
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      113 days ago

      Lemme reply with a context: Question- What ruins a great relationship/marriage? Answer- “Kids”

      • @venusaurOP
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        113 days ago

        Hm. Could it also be that having children can be difficult at times, highlighting a some of the flaws or incompatibilities in people and a relationship.

          • @venusaurOP
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            113 days ago

            How are you managing this so it doesn’t affect your child/children?

              • @venusaurOP
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                112 days ago

                What does that mean? Doesn’t sound sustainable. Have you been seeing a therapist or family counseling?

                  • @venusaurOP
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                    112 days ago

                    What does that mean tho? Cut emotions in half? Let parenthood run its course?