doesn’t return shopping cart to corral at the store
rude to service industry people or anyone else they see as being lower status
mean to animals
if she has kids, treats them as a burden/neglects them
expects me to pick up the tab for everything at all times, excepting rare situations like “we’ve been together a while & live together, she just lost her job but is actively looking”
has a breathalyzer interlock on her car’s ignition
in general, acts cruel or mean to people without obvious provocation
any form of physical, emotional, or verbal abuse
excessive consumption of alcohol or marijuana
any consumption of harder drugs
any other sign of gross immaturity or irresponsibility not listed above - i’m looking for a partner, not a dependant
Oof that hurts a bit - fortunately (?!) at the receiving rather than offering end. Great list.:-)