ID: Is this a pigeon meme where the person is tagged “cis society”, the butterfly in their hand is tagged “trans people having a backbone about anything at all”, and they are asking “is this destroying my free speech?”
ID: Is this a pigeon meme where the person is tagged “cis society”, the butterfly in their hand is tagged “trans people having a backbone about anything at all”, and they are asking “is this destroying my free speech?”
What does it mean by having a back bone?
Not putting up with being shat on. Refusing to be turned into a joke. Having basic self respect
Standing up for yourself. Not backing down easily. Most recently there was a post about trans people coming to protests armed to defend themselves from maga people. Thats the sort of thing this post is about.
Unrelated, but I’ve seen this transphobic guy on Instagram who is like 60 and a body builder. He was showing the clips of a disabled trans boy (female to male) who had just undergone top surgery. The boy had some kind of disability because of which he couldn’t walk and had speech problems. The old man said that there was no way the boy had asked for it and insisted that he was being forced into it. I checked the posts from the disabled kid and he was far from not being able to decide for himself. He seemed smart enough. The old guy didn’t even bother to check and insisted that it was forced.
It actually is very much related, ableism often goes hand in hand with other forms of bigotry (and exists in all spaces in its own right), and we need to stand up to it just as much as the others.
A relevant example is that there is a pretty significant overlap between trans people and autistic people, and so any of us who are both get gaslit and patronised because we couldn’t possibly know our gender identity since we’re autistic and therefore must be completely lacking in any knowledge or understanding even of ourselves. It’s disgusting.
Stripping autonomy from people is evil. I know they infantilize to make those people seem like children, but even children deserve more autonomy than these people are willing to allow.
Telling transphobes (and other bigots) to fuck off, making it clear to them that they are not welcome, and that their bigotry isn’t a legitimate “opinion” they get to express without consequence.