• @[email protected]
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    17 hours ago

    Hard to be an ally when you’re excluded. Hard to even want to be an ally when you’re told you’re part of the problem.

    • @[email protected]
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      37 hours ago

      You’re not excluded, you’re just not included. You’re not meant to be part of everything in society, that doesn’t make you an enemy. Try getting over it and being an ally regardless

      • @[email protected]
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        16 hours ago

        I’m doing my thing and preparing, Ive got a nice little circle around me. Unfortunately a lot of people are hung up on identity politics instead of actually organizing and putting in work.

        I’m an accomplice, not an ally. Too bad too many people are stuck on themselves to figure it out.

    • @MothmanDelorian
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      17 hours ago

      Im a guy. Im excluded from mothers groups. Is that really a bad thing when I can’t offer the group anything as Im not a mother?

      • @[email protected]
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        36 hours ago

        I think you as a father could probably learn a lot from mothers, so yeah it’s kind of fucked up to be excluded.

        • @MothmanDelorian
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          16 hours ago

          I have no kids. If the purpose of the mother’s group is for mothers to share their problems then I have nothing to offer.

            • @MothmanDelorian
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              14 hours ago

              I don’t think I have anything to offer which is why me not being included is fine. That’s the whole point.