• Chainweasel
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    5 hours ago

    Honestly I’ve taken showers, changed clothes, and slept naked so much next to my SO that’s she’s seen the shrimpy probably more than she’s seen it hard.
    Intimacy isn’t just sex, you can be emotionally intimate in both serious and fun contexts and if you spend enough time with each other you’ll be comfortable enough being naked around each other that you can see them naked without being horny.
    We see each other naked probably 20 times a week and have sex maybe 4 times a week, on a good week. Hell, I damn near had an innie after shoveling snow last week and talked to her when I was getting ready to get in the shower and it looked like an acorn in a birds nest, so it happens more than you’d think.

    • HubertManne
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      14 hours ago

      I did say this right? "Presumably once they are in a relationship and are around day to day its possible but unless the person walks around naked its still not going to be often. "