• HubertManne
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    2420 hours ago

    I often wonder how often a woman sees an unerect penis. Presumably once they are in a relationship and are around day to day its possible but unless the person walks around naked its still not going to be often. Before then its likely when they see one its going to be erect.

    • Chainweasel
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      Honestly I’ve taken showers, changed clothes, and slept naked so much next to my SO that’s she’s seen the shrimpy probably more than she’s seen it hard.
      Intimacy isn’t just sex, you can be emotionally intimate in both serious and fun contexts and if you spend enough time with each other you’ll be comfortable enough being naked around each other that you can see them naked without being horny.
      We see each other naked probably 20 times a week and have sex maybe 4 times a week, on a good week. Hell, I damn near had an innie after shoveling snow last week and talked to her when I was getting ready to get in the shower and it looked like an acorn in a birds nest, so it happens more than you’d think.

      • HubertManne
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        117 minutes ago

        I did say this right? "Presumably once they are in a relationship and are around day to day its possible but unless the person walks around naked its still not going to be often. "

      • HubertManne
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        1919 hours ago

        I guess maybe not often but it has been a reoccurring musing. So many times at different points throughout my life. Tends to be passing but I think im going to ask my wife when she gets back from the chiro.

          • HubertManne
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            814 hours ago

            she saw a kids as a kid, and a friend who passed out on the toilet but yeah she says its kinda uncommon until living with a guy.

    • @Apepollo11
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      718 hours ago

      YMMV but in many places around the world it’s not uncommon for couples to sleep in the nip.