I already told you how it all started in my previous posts, but now it’s different because I started having sex with him, before he only gave me blowjobs and now I started fucking his ass. I have to admit that it’s a very nice thing to do, I’ve never fucked a butt before, I’ve always fucked pussies.
and I’m a little confused, because it started for money [not counting the jerk off we did in college watching porn] and I feel absolutely nothing for him other than friendship and brotherhood, he doesn’t attract me at all but I enjoy fucking him, although it’s not as satisfying as doing it with a woman.
and I realized that what I enjoy is having a man on a par dominated and in my power. that makes me horny and I don’t know why.
If you had a relationship with that dynamic with a woman, would you consider it part of your sexuality?
You don’t need to fit any particular label, but you could consider whether “bisexual and heteroromantic” resonates with you.
Still, even as a gay man, not all of my sexual relationships are romantic. It’s okay for sexuality and romance to be separate at times!