Edit - This is a post to the meta group of Blåhaj Lemmy. It is not intended for the entire lemmyverse. If you are not on Blåhaj Lemmy and plan on dropping in to offer your opinion on how we are doing things in a way you don’t agree with, your post will be removed.

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A user on our instance reported a post on lemmynsfw as CSAM. Upon seeing the post, I looked at the community it was part of, and immediately purged all traces of that community from our instance.

I approached the admins of lemmynsfw and they assured me that the models with content in the community were all verified as being over 18. The fact that the community is explicitly focused on making the models appear as if they’re not 18 was fine with them. The fact that both myself and one a member of this instance assumed it was CSAM, was fine with them. I was in fact told that I was body shaming.

I’m sorry for the lack of warning, but a community skirting the line trying to look like CSAM isn’t a line I’m willing to walk. I have defederated lemmynsfw and won’t be reinstating it whilst that community is active.

    • @Dagnet
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      61 year ago

      Still have no idea which community it was

      • DMmeYourNudes
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        341 year ago

        apparently it was adorableporn, whos rules explicitly state you can not pretend to be a child.

        • AdaOPM
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          01 year ago

          Their sidebar rules actively allowed “childlike” content before this occurred.

          • DMmeYourNudes
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            321 year ago

            yet none of the top posts are child like.

            • AdaOPM
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              -11 year ago

              Well you know, except for the one that started this whole thing, and the first couple I saw when I had a closer look at the community…

              • DMmeYourNudes
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                121 year ago

                That does not seem to be the prevailing opinion from people who have actually seen the content.

                • AdaOPM
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                  -11 year ago

                  People who use a community looking for “child like” content from their models probably aren’t the unbiased sample group you think they are

                  • @CaptainEffort
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                    1 year ago

                    I’m a little confused. Above, a comment went really into detail as to why they believe this was just a misunderstanding. One thing they mentioned was this:

                    The mod of the community copy/pasted the dictionary definition from vocabulary.com, which contains the word “childlike”.

                    Now… you actually replied to the comment that I’m quoting from. So you saw that the only reason that “childlike” was included was because it was copy/pasted - not because of anything malicious. So, did you not actually read their whole comment? Or did you read it and decide to continue with this talking point despite knowing it’s flawed?

                  • DMmeYourNudes
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                    51 year ago

                    their most popular content is not child like, they changed their rules, and somehow you don’t see that you too are biased. and again, no one in this thread has seen the post that you started this over.

              • ghostinthessh
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                1 year ago

                This is mostly unrelated to defederating from lemmynsfw.com . However is is possible for next time to take screenshots or archives of the other instance’s rules and relavant policy decisions by admins? I understand not wanting to screenshot the content, and I trust your judgement on things. But it seems like rules/policies get changed after you observe and act on them (disingenuous or otherwise), so having a recording to show what you observed would be helpful. Even to people outside blahaj as we may care about those changes, and want to observe a pattern.

                Otherwise, thanks for running an instance, and taking some time to actually care about and moderate the content.