cross-posted from: https://lemmy.perthchat.org/post/184069
All I found with citations was that it’s best to wait until marriage before cohabitation, but that boomer talk ain’t gonna happen for zoomers.
Otherwise, 1 article said “wait as long as possible” but I need a month/year number lmao.
What the hell bro? For a psychology community participant, you sound very unwelcoming, and people feeling welcome is what Lemmy needs now.
apologies, i didn’t provide any citation for that. also, i may have misinterpreted the purpose of this community. i spent about 6 years in college learning about psychology and neuroscience, and we commonly discuss topics such as these. it’s common to disagree and cite different sources (which again, sorry for not doing that originally), so i figured that in a community such as this, we could continue in the spirit of debate in good faith.
this isn’t a primary source, but here’s a Psychology Today post from 2021 which supports my claim.
In that article, it mentions a 2019 Stanford study (appears to be a review) which points to benefits of cohabitation, but only within the first year. please take a look at the table on page 36, which i believe shows the overall divorce rate is lower for those who do not cohabitate.
i understand your concern about welcoming people. perhaps the first part of my comment was too harsh. but like i said at the end of comment, it’s just my two cents. and i’ll add that it’s not even advice that i myself follow. i just wanted to provide insight on the data that i was/am aware of. if i’m wrong, i’m happy to be proven wrong. i just want to see the numbers.
No, the facts are okay. But all that “cry for validation” bullshit was uncalled for.
Scrow, he’s just quoting well known research. If you’re not open to hearing facts, you’re just not, you know, open bra.
[citation needed]One thing is to say “these are the facts” and another “this are the fact, you fucking validation chaser.”