transcription: im like “hey lets play magic the gathering” and then ten minutes later my tongue is in the mouth of someones daughter whos parents still call her son

  • Ziglin (it/they)
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    11 months ago

    Why would I call a trans girl, who implicitly does not want to be considered a son, a dude?

    I may be missing some gay community info but why would using the slur contribute to the conversation?

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      11 months ago

      I guess i just dont have a strong imagination, because I could never kiss a guy and truly believe im kissing a girl. I suppose it could be fun because it is playing pretend, but I shouldnt be asked to lie to myself.

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        11 months ago

        Ah, well sod you then.

        I bet you there’s plenty of trans people that you wouldn’t know are trans until they tell you (I doubt you’d get to see their genitals if you talk about trans people like that).

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            11 months ago

            Cambridge dictionary: (UK, offensive) something or someone considered unpleasant or difficult

            Bit mean I suppose but your previous message was extremely unpleasant and transphobic.

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          11 months ago

          Also, you are not wrong, I used to be able to identify someone’s sex 100% of the time. You couldn’t fool me. But it has reached a point that I cant tell sometimes… and I dont exactly appreciate that.

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            11 months ago

            Well I’ve always been bad at it but I don’t really get the appeal of knowing someone’s birth sex, I would also like to note that intersex people exist which unless you can recognise them means you’ve probably been wrong sometimes anyways.

            You do seem quite transphobic. Do you think that there is a rational justification or are you just trying to make us uncomfortable? If you believe you have a rational justification would you be willing to hear trans people’s opinions?