What defederating would mean:

  • We won’t see beehaw.org posts/comments on other instances.

Pros:

  • There is less confusion, you can’t respond to a beehaw.org user, thinking they will be able to see your response when in reality they cannot.

Cons:

  • We won’t be able to see any beehaw.org comments/posts on other instances, so we will miss out on some comment threads and posts. It could be good to be able to see them and interact with the other users there even though beehaw.org users won’t see any of our content.

Summary

Overall, I think it is better not to defederate, but simply unsubscribe from all of their communities (and as we no longer get posts from their instance, with time these will cease to appear on our ‘front page’).

beehaw.org users already can’t see our posts/comments anywhere so it’s not like defederating would change their experience in any way, so it wouldn’t really be retaliation and would just limit the content available to lemmy.world users.

What do you think?

  • Kresten
    3•1 year ago

    That’s I feel after every message I send online ever :)

    • @MiddleWeigh
      3•1 year ago

      Yea I got in the habit of ignoring my inbox on reddit due to anxiety.

      I am making an effort to be mindful, and honest, and I’ve been checking my inbox!

      Now I just have anxiety about me saying “too much” as far as personal experiences, and emotions etc.

      Either way I figure if I’m honest, and people hate, f em.