She’s always inviting them over without my consent even though they are maga, anti-vax, bible thumping morons, and knows I hate them.

We fought over it the last time and I relented because she cried and said she didn’t want to kick them out of her life (like I would do to any maga). I agreed they could continue to visit since we live about 7 hours away and we don’t see them that often.

But now we have our first newborn baby not even 4 months old and I worry about its health. We’re in the middle of flu season and her sister’s anti-vax family is driving over with 3 high school age kids. She did tell me they wanted to come months ago and I said no (due to aforementioned reasons). I hadn’t heard anything since, until today when she said they were coming this weekend and she “forgot”.

Obviously I’m pissed. AITAH?

  • partial_accumenEnglish
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    10 days ago

    But now we have our first newborn baby not even 4 months old and I worry about its health. We’re in the middle of flu season and her sister’s anti-vax family is driving over with 3 high school age kids.

    Forget about flu. Do they have Whooping Cough and Measles vaccines? If not, I’d take the baby and get a hotel until they leave.

    • agingelderlyOPEnglish
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      10 days ago

      I don’t know about what they have or haven’t vaccinated, just that they don’t trust vaccines. But I wouldn’t trust them enough to bother asking anyway. The in-laws already visited and after spending a few hours with us told us they were sick.

      These are the type of people who believe if it happens, god meant it to happen so it’s not their fault/no reason to be concerned.