Due to low self esteem and poor social skills, i dont usually approach women irl, also i fear im making them scaried or im bothering them. When i do, im usually rejected and i get really sad over this and i usually drink alcohol as a coping mechanism. All girls i approached in my life rejected me. I know im not entitled to relationships or anything and they have all the right to reject me, but i still get very sad over this, but i feel like using alcohol only makes things worse. I approached a girl at the gym, asked for her name, presented myself, i told her i considered her and her smile and voice beautiful, but ultimately i was rejected. I dont know if im overreacting or if its fine to drink in such occasions.
That’s not really a solid way to meet people. It needs to be more natural. You should try to find situations where you can get to know girls, and they can be around you, get to know you and become comfortable, not make an artificial proposition. That sort of approach would strike me as very awkward. As far as alcohol, i do not really have any advice on that. I drink in every situation but don’t advise that for others.