“anything they don’t understand is weird and wrong and should be shunned” is how you characterized women, and seems to be something that you take issue with, no? Or do you actually like that they do that (in your opinion)?

Is that not a generalization that you claim women make about you/ “undesirable men” (to use your own vernacular)?

I think if you changed your perspective away from incel and towards charitably I bet you’d have a lot more luck communicating with them.