• resipsaloquitur
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    10 hours ago

    All the money I make is taxed as income and I have no deductions.

    Parents get deductions for each kid. And just for being married. And special treatment at work.

    Cry me a river.

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      10 hours ago

      I pay $3-4k more in taxes when I file with my wife. I get $2k per kid as a deduction. Married costs me. I get a little back for kids. But $2k is one month of daycare per child.

      So… No. No special treatment. I don’t get more sick days when my kids are sick. I don’t get less work because I have children. I don’t get easier projects because I’m a father. Whatever special treatment you think we parents are getting is delusional.

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      10 hours ago

      Pretty presumptuous to assume that all people with children are married.

      The cost of raising said children is far more than a tax deduction.

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        9 hours ago

        So don’t do it?

        Don’t ask me to help, anyway. I didn’t ask you to have more children.

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            9 hours ago

            I might, since I’m the one paying for a worse world because narcissists imagine more of their DNA makes the world a better place.

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                9 hours ago

                Far less than their fair share.

                That’s before we get into all the subsidies suburbanites get from city-dwellers.

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                  9 hours ago

                  You’re wildly overestimating how much monetary and societal benefits there are to parenthood.

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                    9 hours ago

                    You’re wildly overestimating how much I want to see the world population go from 8 to 9 billion.

                    You made a selfish decision and expect the world to bail you out.