• Imperious_melange
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    It’s cute, everyone wants to feel heard. Age is guaranteed, growing up is not. The world is a much more understandable place when you realize most people are like 9 years old but in a 30+ year old body.

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      The world is a much more understandable place when you realize most people are like 9 years old but in a 30+ year old body.

      Because we were all traumatised as children. Psychiatrists talk about this

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        18 hours ago

        Yeah, I’ve always thought if we could break the cycle for a whole generation in one clean cut, it would only take on generation to enlighten the whole world.

        People thought I was crazy.

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        Personally my goal is to decrease needless and avoidable suffering for all minds whenever and wherever possible. Not all suffering is needless, like exercise or surgery. Some forms of suffering allow us to come closer to wellbeing mentally and physically.

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            22 hours ago

            It’s kinda stolen from characters like Thich Nhat Hanh, Ram Dass, and Pema Chodron who themselves found it from yet someone else and so on. I’m giving your video a watch and here’s one in return

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        They also say you can’t not be traumatized. Trauma is how we learn to do and be better.

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          No, that’s a garbage take. Trauma doesn’t make anyone better. People who learn to overcome their trauma become better by virtue of the challenge they overcame, but that’s like saying becoming a paraplegic made Steven Hawking smarter.

          Some people thrive despite their disabilities and hardships. That doesn’t mean the disabilities and hardships are what made then thrive in the first place.

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          23 hours ago

          Tbh I don’t know about read because I~~ can’t read~~ don’t study psychology, but I heard it first from Daniel Meckler, an ex-psychiatrist. He explains it well and it comes up in every video, so in his eyes it’s the most important thing to grasp about human psychology for your own sake or for the sake of practicing it.

          You could scroll through his page and see what topic seems most interesting because you’re almost bound to hear it in one of them

    • SeductiveTortoise@piefed.social
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      I just want to get drunk and have fun in the bouncy castle 😭

      No, wait a second. Forget getting drunk, I might throw up in there. Just give me the bouncy castle!