• CultLeader4Hire
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    7 hours ago

    Ask a man what he’s into most will give you the most bland milquetoast response with absolutely zero information that will help you out beyond he “likes to please” regardless of his ability to do so

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      6 hours ago

      Haha I hear often men overdump every crazy fantasy they’ve ever had. Also there’s a lot of fear about what they’ve heard where women say things like, “once I heard that I could never look at him the same again”. So it’s a huge gamble.

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        4 hours ago

        It’s one or the other, either wild shit that they probably wouldn’t actually like or some ultra vague broad platitude

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      7 hours ago

      Communication is hard, especially for men trapped in cultures of rigid gender norms around vulnerability. I get it, though. It doesn’t have to be your problem.

    • WorldsDumbestMan@lemmy.today
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      6 hours ago

      I’m into a lot of shit, especially where one person gets eaten, Mawplay, Getting eaten by a herbivore anthro, and gentle cuddling.

      I feel this is like a chllenge.