• velma@sh.itjust.works
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      4 days ago

      Isn’t everyone expected to follow the rules of the communities they’re posting and commenting in?

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        In fact most Lemmy instances have a pretty bog standard terms of service/community rules/whatever that specifically say this, yes. That not only must they abide by the rules of their instance but that they must also abide by the rules of the group.

        But this concern troll (who is certain that we’re “making feminism look bad” by telling men who barge into a women’s space uninvited and against the rules to fuck off) barges into a women’s space uninvited to concern troll and is shocked … SHOCKED! … to find that some of us are fed up to the fucking gills with his kind and tell him to fuck off.

    • Madzielle@lemmy.dbzer0.com
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      Womens stuff is pretty clear.

      Again, I dont post in dull mens club. Sometimes I want to, but I dont. Go look at thst dudes chord of wood that needs stacking over there, I heard he needs help.

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      I feel like you just ignored what they said. People are politely told the rules and then most of them obey. It’s only the ones who continually ignore them who are the problem.

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      I don’t get it either. It is like building your “safe space” on a highway and then complain about the drive-bys.

      The technology is inherently not made for the way it is used here so I guess it is more a powermove.

      “I was oppressed in my life and so now I do it to the people that oppressed me”

      Otherwise this doesn’t make sense to me.

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        If the technology isn’t made to be used to allow communities to set their own rules, why is following the rules of a community an inherent part of participating in the fediverse?

        Would you similarly insist on being allowed to participate in a women’s book club? Women’s hour at the local pool?

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          Oh it’s that crazy person again. Hello crazy person, you already proven to me that talking to you is a waste of time. Not interested in an exchange with someone who just makes up stuff and then claims that their fantasies are my intention.

          Bye crazy person, hope you get well soon!

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            3 days ago

            OK, let’s make this clear.

            FUCK. OFF.

            You are not welcome here.

            FUCK. OFF.

            Your opinions are not welcome here.

            FUCK. OFF.

            There is no silent majority what wants you here.

            FUCK. OFF.

            Is that clear, Sparky?