To be succinct and private… My incubator worked me for weeks to build rapport and trust with me in my younger days, to get me to tell her a something that she would ultimately, and immediately use and weaponize against me and others.
This wasnt the first time I tried to have a relationship with her, but it did finally open my eyes and become the last. In the many many decades since, I’ve not so much as acknowledge her existence when crossing paths.
I’m sorry man. I hope you are doing okay in life and have healthy outlets for dealing with this incredible burden and stress.
I’m am, thank you. My wife and I have been married for 20+ years and I have been successful in my life enough to be well on my way to being debt free and home payed for years before retirement.
Early in my life I decided to approach big decisions by asking myself what would my parents do and then avoiding those choices. Worked out really well.