Scenario: It’s night, and a man is walking home. He sees ahead there is a woman going in the opposite direction as him. Knowing not to stop or approach her, but his presence makes her nervous. What would help further in this scenario if anything?

  • comador
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    2 days ago

    I used to jog really late in the evening for many years and had this experience more than once.

    My solution: Put my hands palm out flat in front of me as if to gesture I wasn’t a threat.

    If walking, doing something similar and not making it weird is probably equally good.

    • Wren@lemmy.today
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      1 day ago

      I’m a chick. That would weird me out. I’d rather people just keep doing their thing or offer a friendly nod.

      • felsiq@piefed.zip
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        1 day ago

        Apparently I’m more prejudiced than I realized, cuz ig I expect joggers to be weird… like a jogger doing that wouldn’t weird me out but someone just walking by doing that? Definitely weird.

        No hate to joggers tho, weird but harmless is nice variety