It can still have positive and negative lingering effects but focus on the big picture for a moment
For me:
- the opposite of having established redundant measures for safety kills. My finances have been improving since I plan for the worst and overestimate my liabillities while underestimating potential inflows
How did you learn it
By failing to get a job that I was the most qualified applicant for, then having a mentor (who was one of the people already in that role) help me understand why I didn’t get it. I was steaming mad. It wasn’t fair, it wasn’t reasonable, but it wasn’t something that I could control either. I could only choose how I dealt with it.
Details man. Details!
What details?
Why didn’t you get it? Seniority? Nepotism? Rotten capful of yogurt left in someone’s locker? :o
Nepotism. A friend of people who already had that role got it.