Despite my one moment of sheer misandry, which I apologize for…I love you guys ❤️

I probably can’t offer much in the way of comfort…

NSFW, TMI

…I mean, all I can offer is my body, and I doubt you’d want that :P…

…but I really, truly, honestly appreciate all of you guys. Really 💜

Without men, my life would be pretty boring and honestly pointless. And I don’t just mean for sexual reasons…

NSFW, TMI

…well, the sexual reasons are a big and important part of it too, ngl, but they’re not the only reason.

I see and appreciate you. You matter 🩷
To me. To your families. To everyone here ❤️

This isn’t much comfort, but if any of you guys needs someone to talk to, my Matrix account is:
@horny_miisha:chat.blahaj.zone
Feel free to reach out!

You’re not alone. You’re never alone. I love you guys 💜

    • ShadowOfMiisha (she/her)@lemmy.blahaj.zoneOPEnglish
      22·
      18 hours ago

      Eh…I was having a massive fight with my boyfriend and I was really pissed. I said something along the lines of “I hate all men, I’m never getting together with a man again”

      I think I blamed the way he was on him being a man…which was fucking stupid of me tbh and it’s bullshit, cause yes, I am indeed getting together with another man if I ever end up single. Duh 😂 /s

      I regret it. It was wrong. It was just misandry. It was stupid…

      • FiredFloridaCopEnglish
        34·
        18 hours ago

        As a representative from the Men’s Delegation, I think it’s completely forgiven if:

        1. It was private

        2. You didn’t mean it

        3. You apologized

        4. He knew it was a sincere apology

        We all make mistakes. If you have hate for men in your heart, that’s different.

        • ShadowOfMiisha (she/her)@lemmy.blahaj.zoneOPEnglish
          14·
          18 hours ago

          Omg! Men’s Delegation, I’m honored! 😭

          1. Private, well…we fought in private. Just the comment I made was made on Lemmy. The post where it was is now deleted tho
          2. I didn’t. I say stuff I really don’t mean when I get emotional. I don’t get upset very often, but when I do…welp :P
            And of course I didn’t mean it! Everyone around here knows I freaking love men, honest! 🩷
          3. I did. To him and to all the men here. And I’ll do it again, if you need me to.
          4. Of course. I kinda…proved it…to him. In an NSFW way :P
            I wanted to make sure he got it, I wanted to make it sincere! Don’t judge me 😭

          Thank you. It was a mistake. I certainly do not have hate for men in my heart, lol. Thank you 💜

          • FiredFloridaCopEnglish
            9·
            18 hours ago
            1. ❓
            2. ✔️
            3. ✔️
            4. In all fairness lots of people have sex with people they hate based on their immutable characteristics, but I’m willing to take that he knew via other means on faith, so: ✔️

            I guess in a perfect world you’d want to edit your hateful comment to express it was said in anger and you apologize, but as you imply it might be impossible to find it, let alone find everyone who read it. I’m a bit confused as to how/why your private fight with your partner spilled onto Lemmy, but I guess that’s none of my business other than the tut-tut for the public expression of hate.

            • ShadowOfMiisha (she/her)@lemmy.blahaj.zoneOPEnglish
              7·
              18 hours ago

              I basically only frequent Lemmy out of all social media and I like it a lot here. I feel like I can express each and every thought freely, which is both a good and bad thing.

              So when something like that was going on in my life, I went to the only place I know.

              And yeah, we’ve fully made up now. It’s been a while, too. We’re totally good! Thank you 🩷

      • [object Object]@lemmy.caEnglish
        13·
        18 hours ago

        This is not a big deal. We all get hyperbolic in upset moments. It only matters how you resolve it and live going forward.

        • FiredFloridaCopEnglish
          8·
          17 hours ago

          I think it’s a medium deal. I’ve never gone on a racist/sexist/etc. rant out of anger in my life.

          Then you have people like Cosmo Kramer or Roseanne Barr who have a moment of rage that inspires presents as bigotry and “totally didn’t mean it” when they apologize profusely.

          I’m sure some people forgive them, but I don’t.