• Squirrelsdrivemenuts
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    1 day ago

    Then why post the one where her wrinkles don’t show? You might have posted this in appreciation of Marisa Tomei, but you can’t control how other people viewing it feel about it and it feels like an anti-aging post.

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      Then why post the one where her wrinkles don’t show

      Because that’s the post I found elsewhere 🤷🏻

      you can’t control how other people viewing it feel

      Sure.

      That’s just as true as the fact that your feelings don’t control the intent of others or indeed objective reality 🤷🏻

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        We can still be mindful of how other people perceive our messages. Perpetuating unrealistic beauty standards promoted by hollywood is not how I want to live my life, but you do you.

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          21 hours ago

          “you’re at fault for how I reacted” is what you’re saying right now. That’s not a healthy attitude.

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            2 hours ago

            I’m not worried about my reaction, I’m worried about the millions of people with body dysmorphia that constantly have to see these kinds of images.

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              41 minutes ago

              Insulting people on Lemmy isn’t quite the victory against capitalism that you might think it is.

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              Im worried about you keeping your heart on your sleeve and causing drama where none is needed, its a waste of calories if anything