Views on this have changed in recent years, according to Pew Research Center surveys. In 2019, 57% said people overlooking racial discrimination was the bigger problem, while 42% pointed to people seeing it where it really didn’t exist. That gap has narrowed from 15 to 8 percentage points.
Yep I’m a white dude as well, never been called racist in my life. Probably because I don’t do or say racist shit. It’s not very difficult.