Yup, basically. The worst part is, because it is an existing joke, nobody ever corrected me, they thought it was intentional.

I literally only found out because I said it two days in a row to a queer coworker, and the second time, she was like “you know that’s not right, right?” and I’m pretty sure the blood immediately drained from my face.

I then told everyone I knew in case they’d been feeling uncomfortable around me :(