Are there any Discord servers or somewhere in the Matrix to chat about hosting a Lemmy instance? I’ve got Lemmy running, but I think there are several of us in the same boat struggling with federation performance issues and it might be good to have some place to chat real time.
OK I was able to resolve this issue on my end, I had setup an internal consul based url during setup and after changing the config it looks like the old url was still lingering in config/db in a bunch of the json responses from the test urls in the documentation. After dropping everything from postgres and re-initializing I seem to be as far as everyone else (some can subscribe, others stuck pending, and no comments :D )