• BOMBS
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      11 year ago

      I’m happy it helped you! That’s two positive outcomes because telling the story and having reciprocity helps me process it. I’m only 8 mos out of the relationship and 4 mos no contact, so it’s still fresh. The therapist says it usually take about a year to recover. Anyway, enough about me; back to you. We can all get “poor me” at times, and the fact that you have self-awareness and even care about how you affect our husband is a pretty good sign you’re not a covert narcissist…unless of course, your post was to gaslight 🤨 jk! 😋 I 'm don’t think you are gaslighting a random stranger on the internet by having a mutually beneficial with them. I’m trying to be humorous, so pls let me know if I am coming off as rude.