You can start off partial pressure to find the right angle, then go full pressure when you are confident it wont spray where you dont want it to.
Ultimately the entire setup down there just dampens the force of water and gravity does the rest. It does not spray crazy like most expect. Worst case scenario, you leave a few clean water splash drops on the seat from bad angles.
Just get a simple $30 bum-gun. The handheld sprayer that you hang on the side of the toilet.
Its variable pressure, so be careful. Talk about surprise enema. A vigorous one at that.
But its just quick and efficient, can’t imagine life without it now.
how do you spray your own bum handheld without getting water everywhere
You can start off partial pressure to find the right angle, then go full pressure when you are confident it wont spray where you dont want it to.
Ultimately the entire setup down there just dampens the force of water and gravity does the rest. It does not spray crazy like most expect. Worst case scenario, you leave a few clean water splash drops on the seat from bad angles.
do you do it while sitting? how would you even reach down there?
Yeah, same way as you wipe. Lean over to one side, reach down and aim/spray.