• @[email protected]
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    31 year ago

    So now the question is: would you rather have those kids fatherless and probably follow the father’s footsteps or have them have relatively normal childhood?

    • @SaakoPaahtaa
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      -61 year ago

      Am I responsible for all fatherless kids lmao? Honestly, rewarding a druggie by raising his kids he has all the legal rights to, and rewarding the chick for spreading eagle to aforementioned druggie by helping her raise two demons is the most pathetic shit I’ve heard of.

      • @paultimate14
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        21 year ago

        If you spend your whole life dedicated to not fixing anyone else’s problems, eventually they become your problem. And it’s usually a lot harder to fix then.

        • @SaakoPaahtaa
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          -11 year ago

          Sounds very poetic but it’s not true. Wont get me raising someone elses kids with an idiot

          • @paultimate14
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            51 year ago

            Fatherhood isn’t for everyone. There’s nothing wrong with not wanting that.

            But being a misogynist and judgemental prick, referring to a woman as a “chick spreading eagle” and to children as “demons”… That’s a really sad existence. I hope you can learn to overcome your own insecurities and heal from whatever hurt you.

      • @TheSambassador
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        11 year ago

        You aren’t responsible. But neither is the kid. Your entire post completely ignores the humanity and needs of the child, and your entire focus is on “rewarding” the parents you view as undeserving.

        Turns out, life is hard, and it’s even harder for some people. If you don’t have the capacity to care or help them, that’s ok, you do you. But it’s pretty weird to judge others for being compassionate towards people you only know one thing about.

        • @SaakoPaahtaa
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          -61 year ago

          Considering the chick wanted kids with a druggie, I’d argue she wanted to be a single mom. I don’t know about you, but I sure never let a woman down.

          I do have plenty of humanity, but people react to rewards and punishments, and in order to make the world a better place, everyone has the duty to gravitate others away from bad decisions and into good decisions.

          I don’t want any kid to look at the fictional OP from the post and think, “hey, I can shoot my load anywhere, there’s always a loser willing to take care of my cum” or “hey I can get stuffed by whoever and there’s always some loser willing to take care of someone else’s cum”. Be responsible people.

          • @uranibaba
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            31 year ago

            Assuming someone wants kids with a druggie because they have kids together, without knowing their story, is a dick move.

            • @SaakoPaahtaa
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              -41 year ago

              Thanks for your opinion, I was really looking forward to it.