What’s wrong is framing another human being entirely by how they serve you, and what they can or can’t do, possibly before they ever meat you, by how it makes you feel 🤮
But isn’t saying that bad in the current culture? I couldn’t care less what people do for a living if it has nothing to do with me. But if I’m considering someone to be part of my life I don’t want them to have an only fans, past or present, and a lot of people act like that’s a terrible view to have.
I am not lying. I couldn’t give less of a shit. My mother writes novels involving prison blowjobs. If someone wants to see her 81-year-old naked self getting fucked and she wants to make money from it, good for her.
I wonder if the kids of the porn-star dad feel the exact same way? Riddled with the shame and horror of a dad who blasts puss all day long.
Probably not right? It might even be “cool” to have a motorbike driving porn star dad. Which makes me think that perhaps this isn’t so much “disgust about porn stars” as much as it is “disgust with WOMEN who do porn”.
I believe that men don’t like the idea of normalising women doing porn, because it makes women sexually confident and aware. “if my girlfriend has slept with insert number here guys, she’ll never stay with me because how can I complete?”.
It’s a deep seated insecurity thing, possibly because us men put too much weight into sexual performance. If we aren’t THE BEST SEX OF HER LIFE, then we’ve failed. If she’s had sex with that many men, the chances of us being THE BEST reduces.
So if all men can maintain the societal stigma, hopefully women will refrain from too many partners, and we can keep our egos nice and untested.
Stigmas aside, statistically people who have lots of sex end up struggling to maintain long lasting relationships… both men and women.
It’s just not healthy at a certain point.
I’m also fairly certain most kids would be ashamed of their dad being a porn star as well, especially when they start getting harassed by other kids about it. It would take super human coping skills to deal with it without suffering trauma.
I understand most recent studies have suggested that the association between multiple partners and divorce rates is decreasing, possibly due to stigmas around sexual resumés also decreasing.
If the problem with porn star parents is these kids getting harassed by their peers, wouldn’t that be solved by shifting societal attitudes? Kids used to beat up black school kids, and that’s certainly dropped off since the 30s.
I imagine that’s the intention of circulating the quote “sex work is real work”, to change perceptions over time.
I’m sure your argument could be (and likely still is) used to maintain stigmas around homosexuality, especially with the “two dad’s/mums” routine. Like, you couldn’t tell a mixed race couple not to have children because “it would take super human coping skills to deal with it without suffering trauma”.
Ah yes, that god awful mentality of…
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Respecting women as human beings rather than objects for you to control (before and after) you attempt to penetrate and grow babies in.
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What’s wrong is framing another human being entirely by how they serve you, and what they can or can’t do, possibly before they ever meat you, by how it makes you feel 🤮
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Oh yeah, being an ableist misogynist is a great way to prove you actually value or even just respect women… 🙄🙄🙄
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Dignity and standards he says while using the r word.
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Then continue rejecting people while those who are accepting and loving continue to unite different ideas. <3
You’ll have a lovely little tribe to be happy in I’m sure.
Thanks:)
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But isn’t saying that bad in the current culture? I couldn’t care less what people do for a living if it has nothing to do with me. But if I’m considering someone to be part of my life I don’t want them to have an only fans, past or present, and a lot of people act like that’s a terrible view to have.
No, you can disqualify partners for whatever you want. Anyone can. It’s all personal preference. Just don’t be an asshole about it.
Freedom of Association.
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And you are getting downvotes lol, really shows the mentality of people here
The mentality of “stop trying to control what women do with their bodies, you insecure cave troll”
Would you be comfortable with your mom doing that? If you answer yes you are lying.
That is all that needs to be said.
Good try though my ignorant friend.
I am not lying. I couldn’t give less of a shit. My mother writes novels involving prison blowjobs. If someone wants to see her 81-year-old naked self getting fucked and she wants to make money from it, good for her.
If you believe that you are only lying to yourself, because no child of a whore “couldn’t give a shit”.
Lie one more time and I’m blocking you so I never have to deal with your ignorance again.
Well, you know me better than I do.
I know people, and on certain levels, we are all the same.
Are we? Do you have the same morals regarding women as a Saudi Arabian?
From your perpective - what mentity do you see? I’d love to understand
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I wonder if the kids of the porn-star dad feel the exact same way? Riddled with the shame and horror of a dad who blasts puss all day long.
Probably not right? It might even be “cool” to have a motorbike driving porn star dad. Which makes me think that perhaps this isn’t so much “disgust about porn stars” as much as it is “disgust with WOMEN who do porn”.
I believe that men don’t like the idea of normalising women doing porn, because it makes women sexually confident and aware. “if my girlfriend has slept with insert number here guys, she’ll never stay with me because how can I complete?”.
It’s a deep seated insecurity thing, possibly because us men put too much weight into sexual performance. If we aren’t THE BEST SEX OF HER LIFE, then we’ve failed. If she’s had sex with that many men, the chances of us being THE BEST reduces.
So if all men can maintain the societal stigma, hopefully women will refrain from too many partners, and we can keep our egos nice and untested.
That’s a lot of speculation.
Stigmas aside, statistically people who have lots of sex end up struggling to maintain long lasting relationships… both men and women.
It’s just not healthy at a certain point.
I’m also fairly certain most kids would be ashamed of their dad being a porn star as well, especially when they start getting harassed by other kids about it. It would take super human coping skills to deal with it without suffering trauma.
I understand most recent studies have suggested that the association between multiple partners and divorce rates is decreasing, possibly due to stigmas around sexual resumés also decreasing.
If the problem with porn star parents is these kids getting harassed by their peers, wouldn’t that be solved by shifting societal attitudes? Kids used to beat up black school kids, and that’s certainly dropped off since the 30s.
I imagine that’s the intention of circulating the quote “sex work is real work”, to change perceptions over time.
I’m sure your argument could be (and likely still is) used to maintain stigmas around homosexuality, especially with the “two dad’s/mums” routine. Like, you couldn’t tell a mixed race couple not to have children because “it would take super human coping skills to deal with it without suffering trauma”.
Ah yes, that god awful mentality of…
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Respecting women as human beings rather than objects for you to control (before and after) you attempt to penetrate and grow babies in.
Ignorant much?