• Zagorath
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    1691 year ago

    Here’s a possibly-controversial take, but joining the army isn’t really even close to the best analogy for a male-dominated industry where you “sell your body”.

    Being a labourer is. Working in industries like construction, but not as a skilled tradesman. It doesn’t carry the same moral weight riley was going for though.

    • ikiru
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      True, but it’s not just about labor.

      To join the US military you have to literally sign over your bodily autonomy to join. Once you do then they can pump you full of experimental drugs, or run whatever other ungodly experiments, all they want. I know someone who considered joining then backed out when this allegedly happened.

      Anyway, never heard of Riley before but seems nice. Hope she supports our troops and offers military discount for her OnlyFans.

      • @DillyDaily
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        201 year ago

        Depends on your definition of mortal danger and how OSHA compliant your work site is.

          • @PRUSSIA_x86
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            141 year ago

            I get what you’re going for, but having worked in construction in Ohio I can say that yes, sometimes people do take potshots at you/around you.

      • BlanketsWithSmallpox
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        True, you’re far more likely to die working menial laborer jobs than you are in the military.

        Laborers are providing direct goods to the people they supply too. The military is far more intangible with prevention being the key factor for it’s expense.

        In the United States, there were far more occupational injury deaths among men than women. In 2020, there were 4,377 male occupational injury deaths in the United States, compared to 387 deaths among women.

        https://www.statista.com/statistics/187127/number-of-occupational-injury-deaths-in-the-us-by-gender-since-2003/

        9 military people die from hostile action in 2020. 317/1017 in accidents. 190 illness. 406 suicide.

        https://dcas.dmdc.osd.mil/dcas/app/summaryData/deaths/byYearManner

        I highly doubt they consider suicide for occupational hazards too which is strange in hindsight considering the military accounts for it now. One of the few things they do ahead of the woke curve lol. First responders as well.

        So in reality you’d need to remove both suicide and illness from the military’s numbers to equal laborers.

        363 died in the military then vs 4,774.

        Even hostile deaths… 9 in hostile action and 37 homicides… Meanwhile there were 392 workplace homicides. 37,060 nonfatal intentional injuries.

        https://www.bls.gov/opub/ted/2022/workplace-violence-homicides-and-nonfatal-intentional-injuries-by-another-person-in-2020.htm

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        Right, but you’re also not in mortal danger when you’re fitting pipes in Nebraska vs. Baghdad.

        Oh man, this is wrong.

        In. 2022, there were 500k plumbers in the US, I don’t have exact numbers for how many pipe fitters there were, but it’s a position that’s always in high demand, safe to say that very few of that 500k number are pipe fitters, less than a quarter. So let’s say 100k pipe fitters which is honestly, probably generous.

        There were 70 fatal accidents involving pipe fitters. Not injuries, fatal accidents only. That is a ratio of .0006.

        The US military boasted 1.3 million members that year, and 270 fatal accidents, and 0 to enemy action. A ratio of .0002.

        You are 2/3rd less likely to die in the armed forces then you are pipe fitting.

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          That’s interesting, but it would be perhaps more interesting to compare the yearly average accross a longer time frame. Also didn’t a bunch of people get lung cancer and die as a result of burn pits? I’m sure people died years later from exposure to other hazards too, not to mention how many people commit suicide after.

          Also this isn’t to say pipe fitting isn’t a dangerous job, I am just interested how the statistics would look over a longer time frame and with consideration of deaths that occur after service, but still as a result.

          • Sippy Cup
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            So there’s a few things happening here that are causing industrial numbers to surpass American military rates of injury.

            We are not actively in conflict with any other nation, so being in the military is no more dangerous than any industrial occupation because of conflict.

            The military is, generally, safer than any one occupation, but the military is also a monolith. Saying it’s safer in the military is kind of like saying office jobs in the US are more dangerous than pipe fitting. You’re essentially comparing numerous disparate positions to one type of work, and that skews your results. It would be more accurate to compare rates of incidents in say, front line infantrymen to any particular other field.

            It’s also worth pointing out that the military has it’s own plumbers, and they do their own pipe fitting. Statistics on the rates of injury there are a little harder to come by.

            But more to the specific points you mentioned: yes, and that’s not the first time the military has accidently killed or seriously injured it’s own people. These incidents happen in civilian world too and arguably, more frequently. The US industrial labor pool is 10 times the size of the military, and negligent safety hazards come up every year. Rates of suicide are also lower in the military than in the general population, and a variety of factors contribute to that.

          • Sippy Cup
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            First of all, KIA MIA for 2022 is 0, I did add them.

            People who later die due to injury is also included, for both metrics. That’s why these numbers are almost 2 years old.

            What specifically was excluded were those who died to illness or self inflicted wounds.

              • Sippy Cup
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                I picked the most recent year for which information is available, I gathered the summary information from statistics that others had already done.

                These reports are prepared yearly, I’m not sure what you expect. It’s literally how statistics are done. It’s an industrial standard. Do you expect that people only work for 1 year out of their lives while everyone in the military is stuck there for 8?

                I dunno man it sounds like you’re just being dense on purpose because you’ve run out of room to argue.

  • @[email protected]
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    What I hate with this is that is defines that the army itself is good or bad. But in reality it is what it is used for. If its actually used for defence, then it’s very honorable. When it’s used as a tool to exploit resources to the rich, (aka generally being the aggressor), it’s not.

    • @[email protected]
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      281 year ago

      Even simpler than that. People trying to slot sex work/army/any job into “good/bad” columns aren’t worth your attention.

      Except for health insurance CEOs, those definitely bad.

      • cannache
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        But war means more than sacrificing your body or personal reputation. War is giving up your whole personal conscience to fight for what the group believes is the most direct action in response to an event

    • @telllos
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      I mean, even for defence. Your settling, an argument, the rich and powerful people above you are having. You’re settling it with your life.

      • cannache
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        If you think your side is right and you’re ready to die fighting then who is anyone else to say that you, the tool, is wrong?

    • uphillbothways
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      See, that’s an easy question to answer: Did you, or whoever, join the military while the US, or your country, was being attacked?

      • @FireRetardant
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        If you wait til you are attacked, you may not be trained or ready enough to actually defend your country from the attack. You can still join in times of peace with intentions of defense for the future, helping with disaster relief, and providing international aid.

  • @[email protected]
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    I would never compare, being a sex worker is obviously incredibly more honorable

    But…saying that something is more honorable than something else is comparing them?

    EDIT: to be clear, her point is absolutely valid. This isn’t (to misquote a replier) “But I must find way for sex lady be dumb”. Her actual point is spot-on. This particular linguistic evolution just feels weird to me - feels like the new “literally”.

  • @[email protected]
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    381 year ago

    How much Kool aid do you need to drink to think a soldiers job is “saving people”? Except for medics that’s pretty much the opposite of the point.

    • @PieMePlenty
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      231 year ago

      I thought all American soldiers died far away from home so Americans can bake apple pie and sleep on red white and blue bed sheets.

      • Karyoplasma
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        141 year ago

        According to former US president Donald Trump, the soldiers that died abroad are all losers and suckers because a good soldier doesn’t die.

    • @Son_of_dad
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      231 year ago

      Tbf the bros probably knew what she was up to and just all took the win

      • @[email protected]
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        51 year ago

        Makes me think of Always Sunny and how Dee thought he was really showing those guys by having sex with them and rating them poorly lol

        • @Son_of_dad
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          41 year ago

          Exactly my thought too “hey are you the whore who bangs everybody?”

  • @Fosheze
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    271 year ago

    Grabs popcorn, sorts by top, scrolls to bottom.

    • @arin
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      61 year ago

      No controversial sort sadge

    • @Nurse_Robot
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      31 year ago

      What platform/app are you using that lets you sort by top? I’m on Sync and don’t think it’s possible

      • @nnjethro
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        61 year ago

        You can sort by top in sync. Tap the icon next to the 3 dot menu in the top right and select your sort option.

      • @Fosheze
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        51 year ago

        I’m on Jerboa. It gives you almost all the same sorting options for coments as it does for posts.

      • @arin
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        31 year ago

        I’m on Connect and sort by top works

    • @w2tpmf
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      141 year ago

      Thank you for your service cervix.

  • @masquenox
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    171 year ago

    If you work for a living, you’re a prostitute - you’re selling your physical and mental health just to survive no different than sex workers.

    The term prostitute literally translates to “to offer up for sale” - and, guess what, that pretty much describes the entire working class.

  • _NoName_
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    131 year ago

    Found out my work is getting a new chemical. The chemical is so volatile that if it splashes on you, it will potentially burn you into nothing.

    I am fodder for the machines of industry.

    • Karyoplasma
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      According to my ex, who prides herself to be a social worker and a conflict solver, relationships are built solely on sex, not on interpersonal connections. But then again, she also thinks that you shouldn’t ever apologize because it shows a lack of self-esteem, called the police on her best friend because she was jealous of her hooking up while she didn’t and regularly posts “memes” about how terrible everyone else is on Facebook. Maybe she’s just a nutcase.

      • @[email protected]
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        That may just be her, and I kinda feel bad for her. That sounds like a lot of maladjustment and projection. My friends say they had some regulars who’d start the sessions telling them about their lives and showing them pictures of their kids. Touch and validation can be a form of medicine. Everyone needs to feel wanted. We are social creatures. Incels are one example of those starved from such things.

      • @ttmrichter
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        61 year ago

        Maybe she’s just a nutcase.

        Maybe. Yes.

  • HexesofVexes
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    111 year ago

    I don’t think I’ll ever understand why women who choose to enter the sex trade are demonised. It’s a job, some enjoy it and some don’t, but everyone enjoys getting paid. Though the comparison between people who rent their bodies (sex workers do get to keep their own bodies after work) and people who gamble their bodies (soldiers don’t always get to come home as part of the job) is a little off.

  • @shadowspirit
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    81 year ago

    Lotta stupid discussions on the internet

    Oh, well, hello fellow sophisticants. Sorry, I was referring to someone else.