While that might be true for most healthy people you can also grow up to not feel guilty while being guilty and the other way around. Source: I feel guilty for heating my apartment when i freeze.
I dunno. If they were my neighbors when I was in apartments… they’re the reason I opened my windows in winter despite it being -10 f outside. (It was like 80f inside? With my heater off. Property management had to have more than one chat with me- open windows was a no-no; and then with the neighbors next door.
True. I still find myself with remnants of weird shit like that. I was taught that it was my fault for someone assuming I was guilty, so I had to go out of my way to never seem guilty, and feel guilty if someone thought I was.
I still find myself over-explaining shit when I’m innocent.
Was religion for me too. I remember how i was always told to have done evil by doing things like playing pokemon on the gameboy of my cousin or having a “monsters” on the Bayblades. Questioning anything religious? Evil. And so on.
While that might be true for most healthy people you can also grow up to not feel guilty while being guilty and the other way around. Source: I feel guilty for heating my apartment when i freeze.
Idk if you still need to hear this but you deserve and have every right to be warm and comfortable in your own home (:
I dunno. If they were my neighbors when I was in apartments… they’re the reason I opened my windows in winter despite it being -10 f outside. (It was like 80f inside? With my heater off. Property management had to have more than one chat with me- open windows was a no-no; and then with the neighbors next door.
Ordinarily, yes, you’re right,
Don’t feel guilty you and the other neighbors running the heat keep my apartment warm!!!
True. I still find myself with remnants of weird shit like that. I was taught that it was my fault for someone assuming I was guilty, so I had to go out of my way to never seem guilty, and feel guilty if someone thought I was.
I still find myself over-explaining shit when I’m innocent.
Religion is cancer.
Was religion for me too. I remember how i was always told to have done evil by doing things like playing pokemon on the gameboy of my cousin or having a “monsters” on the Bayblades. Questioning anything religious? Evil. And so on.