• @moistclump
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    210 months ago

    That is a very healthy way to deal with the sads!

    I just cry and blob until I’m crying less and blobbing less.

    • YAMAPIKARIYA
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      310 months ago

      Oh man. I mean if it works it works. After the breakup I just realized how much free time I actually have and that I can get some shit done. Honestly, either that relationship was very bad, or being in a relationship is a scam.

      • @[email protected]
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        10 months ago

        I don’t know what I’m doing differently then, because I’ve never been in a relationship where I felt I couldn’t do what I wanted to do. Though I’m also not a man nor straight so

        If I were in a relationship where I couldn’t do the things I wanted to do, or do those things together, than that just seems like a bad fit…?

      • @moistclump
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        110 months ago

        Or being in that relationship. I still hold hope that good relationships are super enriching, wonderful wonderful things. Mediocre relationships are… meh. Not worth it. Time sucking at best, soul sucking at worst.