I just got up from conversation with a couple of older black men, that I said “well I got to go back to work and start cracking the whip.” And it occurred to me then that it was probably a really insensitive stupid thing to say.
Sadly, it hadn’t occurred to me until it’s already said.
Feel free to hang around by all means. I am sure we agree on way more things than we disagree.
People need to toughen up while also learning how to respect each other.
It’s ironic when the people claiming that everyone else needs to toughen up or grow thicker skin because you don’t like being criticized.
You’re allowed to be offensive, and I’m allowed to tell you when you’re being offensive. If everyone thinks you’re an asshole, that’s not because everyone is too sensitive.
As long as we agree
Agree. Sure some phrases should be retired but cracking the whip entirely refers to work animals in the past. But that will likely offend some animal rights group.
I bet the majority of the people here that are offended or could consider that to be offensive are not even if a race that has slavery in their past.
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More pissed off than offended.
But yeah, people are complicated like that.