• Chaos
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    9 months ago

    You’re not dating anyone if you’re paying them, you’re just a client.

        • @OneOrTheOtherDontAskMe
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          249 months ago

          Paying for sex, not sad, a little strange for me personally but not sad.

          Paying for affection/love, now that IS sad.

          • @[email protected]
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            -79 months ago

            If you can’t get sex from being a cool person and you have to pay for it, that’s sad. If you’re addicted to sex and pay for it because you need sex is even sadder.

            • @OneOrTheOtherDontAskMe
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              169 months ago

              People who pay for sex are not universally “not cool people” who can’t get it other ways. In my work with various at risk populations, from what I hear from sex workers, plenty of people pay for sex. Funny charismatic, rich, doesn’t matter, they’re just as likely to be Johns.

                  • @[email protected]
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                    -39 months ago

                    That’s generally how it’s been done in America for hundreds of years. I think peasants in Europe did it like that even further back too. So how long until it can be considered “tradition”?