• @[email protected]
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    679 months ago

    My wife finally are in a point where we can afford to have children, but we are kinda getting a bit old to have children. So we are also choosing the dual income no children life style,

    But a big part of that is our age and how long it took to get to a comfortable place financially.

    Now we want to focus on saving for a house and retirement.

    • @Mrkawfee
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      39 months ago

      How old are you if you don’t mind me asking?

        • @StereoTrespasser
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          19 months ago

          That’s not old, my man. Many of us are having kids in our 40s.

          • @[email protected]
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            109 months ago

            I’m one right here. Tired? Sure, but they fill our lives. This was 100% the right decision for us, but everyone has their own set of goals

        • @CaptainSpaceman
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          -29 months ago

          perfectly ok in that range, it starts to get unsafe for the mother after 40 tho

          • ANGRY_MAPLE
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            59 months ago

            I don’t know about this commenter, but don’t forget that everyone is different.

            Hypothetically, you might be good having kids in you thirties, but one or both of them might have a condition or disability that gets worse with time.

            I know people in their early 20s with bad arthritis, and a lot of people want to be able to chase after and run around with their kids. Sometimes chronic pain/illness can remove that option.

            • @CaptainSpaceman
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              19 months ago

              Oh for sure, I dont think everyone should or can be parents. Im just saying its not necessarily a death knell for parenthood in that age range